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    Awesome Story Must Read. . . .

    Husband comes home drunk and breaks some crockery,

    vomits and falls down on the floor…

    Wife pulls him up and cleans everything.

    Next day wen he gets up he expects her to be really angry wid him….

    He prays that they shouldd not have a

    fight..

    He finds a note near the table…

    “Honey..your favourite breakfast is ready on the table,

    i had to leave early to buy grocery…

    i’ll come running back to you, my love.

    I love you. …

    He gets surprised and asks his son..,

    ‘what happened last night..?

    Son told…,”

    when mom pulled you to bed and tried

    removing your boots and shirt..

    you were dead drunk and you said……

    ” Hey Lady ! Leave Me Alone…

    I M Married !!!

    Thats True Love…♥

    its all crazy:))

    Collected my self back to believe in love ,but I failed because of religion ..

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    I wonder what life is and wonder what religion is ..I look back and smile of what I have gone through and feel where did I go wrong ..my journey is been rough and ruthless still go beautiful and experimental ..ever since I have come to my senses I realise it’s funny and society is to be blamed for it ..I come from a family where being a good human was religion to me and that’s what I have been taught and preached ..I still remember my first affair ,so was I happy and exited to this commited relationship and dreaming of a beautiful life with him and like every girl does I wanted to be apart of his family ..little did I know my dreams would be shattered not because I ain’t worth him but because his family feels that a Muslim girl cannot be married in my house .i would have accepted the fact if I wasn’t educated ,did not want to adjust in his family or was not beautiful or my any means lower to his expectations ..All was going great while one fine day he turned off my name from his life without letting me know what wrong have I done .My life’s dream partner is just a stranger one fine day and I don’t know why.My life came to a standstill I did not know where to go he shut the door on me and said I don’t want to be in touch with you .Trust me life failed for me ,darkness around me ,where do I go and what do I do ..all I was wanting him to look back and say just what happened and what did I do..it was more painful than I can describe as I only landed in the hospital with low BP and he just did not care ..it took me months to forget him and there was not even one time that I left any chance to make this relationship work .While admis’t my efforts to come off my depression here I go I have a friend who now becomes my shoulder to cry and I feel good that I have a friend to share my thoughts and my sadness with ,while this friendship turned to a liking and now I realised he is the one who will take care of me .I was so happy now that someone who I can trust and love and care is just here ..wow all going great from cooking for him to travelling 300 kms just to see him life was so amazing that I can’t really describe in words and just when life was super Awsome there comes a surprise ,he had a prayer at his place and I was invited ,so exited to meet his family and looking forward to my new journey and here I do dressed up for the occasion and have made all preparations in his house for the prayers and now that the time is come to address me ,he very sweetly indroduces me as Poonam and not my name and the world had just turned back again for me .i couldn’t believe it history repeats again .i cannot get married to him because it is against the society and religion to have married a different caste .I am in bits and pieces now ,torn apart once again .he cannot go against his family and his mother does not want to accept me ,so here I am out of his life too and I stand strong until the third picture starts while now I am a little stronger to have broken down and trying to control my life .Being beautiful and presentable could be a boom or a blast I don’t know ,I now come across a office buddy who cannot stop making me feel special and turned my life into a fairy tale ,amazing that I was and charming in his life he called me an angel and now this time I really cannot make a mistake so I told him if you can get married to me we take it forward else no point .He said his family does not want him to settle as of now and one fine day he gets a transfer and boom he is out ,shocked for ever all that happened to me is unbearable and now I am into depression I can’t eat I can’t get up from bed and with all doctors all treatments failed a month of struggle with health I realised I need some mental help and I did go for 4 hypnosis sessions to get back to my normal self and all I realised is I am happy single and can live my life without any moral support ..life is given me great teachings but just a question that holds on to me

    In love ,where does religion come from ?

    I am still looking for true love ,The Guy Who can love me beyond caste creed religion factors like age n so on

    I lost all my relations  only because of religion .while my religion is humanity ,kindness and goodness . I still follow my principles and forgive all ..

    Just a question left behind

    In love ,Where does religion come from ..

    CRedit :True stories by Pri

     

    From Marriage to Divorce..

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    A dream of every girl to get married to the man of her life ..like every girl I also had dreamt of the most vulnerable dream guy and was so happy to find the man who will hold my hand and fill my life with love and happiness and could not wait for the day of my marriage. And the day is come I am nervous ,exited ,happy ,scared but with all the trust in him I am giving my life to him .Leaving away my family ..my friends ..my name ..my life ..I step into a new life a new family and new name .What a day ,it is the most precious day of my life ,it will change my life .I am so happy and glad to live my life with you forever.Trusted you and have come to Color our life with joy and happiness.

    Little did I know I trusted the wrong hand , I was so busy dreaming of the fairy land that I forgot to get my reality check .Oh is this the man whom I wanted to live my life with? The man who makes me realise that I was born to sacrifice for him and his family .i wasn’t the daughter but I am the daughter in law.I have the right to smile but only when they want.I cannot ask for anything I want but live at the mercy of the family.But marriage is what I wanted and I am a girl so I have to sacrifice what will my parents go through if I told them I was not happy .Will the society accept me and understand my pain. Can I go back to the family I belong too.But everyone has to compromise   And so I have to as well.

    Years have gone by and I have forgotten to smile .I am in pain yes in bad pain but I can’t express . I am caged and my life is not what I wanted it to be like .I live like a slave.What next where am I heading .No answers to my questions ..I am tired and I don’t want to live anymore .I am broke and almost dead body.No hope and way out.

    While just when everything was over ,there came a ray of hope in my life .I banged into a friend of mine and when everything failed a few old memories got me open my love story and now that sh could sense my pain asked me to let free from the cage and live like a free bird.

    Easy to say but hard work to digest ,breaking the rules of the society and standing up for your rights and wanting to live your life with your own terms and conditions .Sorry girl not so easy the most favourite society had its say..but I had to choose what I want ..do I wish to live like a dead body or stay alone but in peace .

    I had my answers and now the time had come to pull myself ,stay strong and stand up for myself .Its today or never .Its a tough fight but a fight for my own happiness . I have to do it.

    I decided and took my move .Yes I wish to give a divorce to your son ,my dear mother in law not because I wish to go ,it’s cause your son forgot I trusted him and he promised the smile on my face.I gave everything for this family and this family thought I was their slave ,I did this for the man of my life and he forgot that I exist and I am apart of his identity.I wish you could understand I am also a woman like you and I deserve to be treated well.

    I want to go for my self respect .I want to go for my identity .I want to go to find my own self and I break this bond with pride and divinity .I stand for my self even if no one else does. Finally I did divorce him and I am happy with my life and much stronger and much better .

    Every girl has the right to live and she should live.

    I take control of my life ,do you …..

    Credits :My life by Pri

    Let go..someone you love a lot

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    Let go by Vardeep Sidhu..

    How to Let Go of Someone You Love:You will feel the same pain every night if you still choose to be alone and if you don’t help yourself to move on. Don’t be afraid to continue things that you do even if it can remind you of him. Don’t be afraid to listen to your favorite music even though you can hear him singing it in front of you. The world won’t adjust just because he left you. Life won’t stop just because you’re hurt. Get used to the pain and live by yourself again like what you’re doing before he came into your life, as if he never existed. It’s okay to cry, but don’t make it last for a lifetime. Don’t dwell too much on the past because you are not living there anymore. Forgive yourself and accept everything. Remember, life is a race and it’s okay to rest for a while, but in order to get into the finish line, you must stand up and start to run again. Always look on the brighter side of every situation. Get ready because greater things are coming your way. Be free. Run. Explore and let go.

    Be stronger than your emotions. Everything starts in the mind. Don’t let things around you influence you to dwell in the past. Empty your mind. Don’t let your emotions control your day. Take responsibility. Start your day with a little motivation that you won’t think of him for the rest of your day. If you decided to move on, make a plan and then stick to it every single time. Divert your attention to things that won’t remind him. Create and find your own source of happiness. Make yourself busy and when you’re alone, pray. It can help you a lot. There’s no trick in moving on, but if you learn how to be stronger and control your emotions, you’ll get over it sooner than you thought.

    Acceptance. We all know that it’s an act of unloading all your emotional baggage that you’re carrying all this time. But it’s not an easy process to forget and accept everything. Because it’s the most painful stage of healing and it doesn’t happen overnight. So, give yourself time to grieve and feel your feelings. Embrace the pain. Remember, if you can fall in love for someone who’s completely wrong for you, imagine how hard you can fall for someone who is perfect for you. Maybe this person doesn’t love and treated you as you deserved, but someone else will. Use the situation as a learning experience for you. You still have a lot to learn about life and yourself. Stop regretting, asking questions and making thoughts, it will just hinder you from moving on. You’re all alone and it’s the perfect time to rebuild yourself. Reconnect with the people around you. Create new memories. Surround yourself with positivity. Accept the fact that everything has been already over. You can’t fix it anymore. You’ll never be the same as before, but it’s okay. Forgive him. Forgive yourself and keep moving forward.

    Let go…

    Credits :Vardeep Sidhu

    Job blunders!! i lived it and I am sure you too..she needs to take that risk..

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    Job blunders !!!

    Should I leave my job or not.what would I do without a job.what if I don’t get a job in notice period .how will I repay my loans .how will I sustain.What will I answer my interviewer.Why did I leave ..will he understand ..

    So many questions running in your mind ..I know I don’t enjoy my job..I know I can’t take humilation from my boss in the name of leader and mentor.I don’t want to say yes  even if I don’t believe in it.I know I am not in the right place .

    It’s difficult very difficult to take such decisions in your carrier but yes when I could not deal with the unreasonable management decisions after 4.5years I decided to leave my job..just leave it..so now I have decided I shall rule out of the fears of my life and take this risk and stand up for my self ..I simply resigned without a job in hand ,scared and nervous but firm with my decision .Some told be good decision we understand your pain and some simply said how could you do it..take your resignation back.

    Thousand of thoughts and fear of failure ..I had to pull myself and say everything will be alright .No one will understand what you going through ,will I be able to stay back and accept some more torture and the answer to myself was no.

    What next,a job in hand is what I need.All that went in my mind is I need a job and all that’s what I know ,sleepless nights again not for how my current job treated me but now I need to get my new job on my own..day and night only hunt a job I have 45 days and I can do it ..common I told my self .Giving interviews everyday and awaiting response .30days 30 interviews some matched my job profiles some did not..so many rejection so many failures ..but the faith and only one thought ..when you are good only good will happen to you..was difficult to pull yourself and give even one more interview ..met a lot of kind mentors who were soft and nice to help me get a job and that’s when I realised there are good people that exist in this world ..that was one thing that recharged me..while after so much struggle I got 3 offers and now I had to choose the best for my self  again sleepless nights to finalise what’s best for you but you had to choose ..

    Finally taking the name of lord and trusting him took a decision And joined a new company for a new adventure of life .

    While the risk was worth it ..I live with dignity .i enjoy my job now and most importantly I am very happy

    And that’s called life ..

    I hope I could give you the message of life ..

    Thanks Almighty for being by my side ..

    My journey continues ..Pri

    This brought tears down my eyes..

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    The Best Piece I’ve Read This Year!

    In the country of Armenia, in 1988, Samuel and Danielle sent their young son, Armand, off to school. Samuel squatted before his son and looked him in the eye. “Have a good day at school, and remember, no matter what, I’ll always be there for you.” They hugged and the boy ran off to school.

    Hours later, a powerful earthquake rocked the area. In the midst of the pandemonium, Samuel and Danielle tried to discover what happened to their son but they couldn’t get any information. The radio announced that there were thousands of casualties. Samuel then grabbed his coat and headed for the schoolyard. When he reached the area, what he saw brought tears to his eyes. Armand’s school was a pile of debris. Other parents were standing around crying.

    Samuel found the place where Armand’s classroom used to be and began pulling a broken beam off the pile of rubble. He then grabbed a rock and put it to the side, and then grabbed another one.

    One of the parents looking on asked, “What are you doing?” “Digging for my son,” Samuel answered. The man then said, “You’re just going to make things worse! The building is unstable,” and tried to pull Samuel away from his work.

    Samuel just kept working. As time wore on, one by one, the other parents left. Then a worker tried to pull Samuel away from the rubble. Samuel looked at him and said, “Won’t you help me?” The worker left and Samuel kept digging.

    All through the night and into the next day, Samuel continued digging. Parents placed flowers and pictures of their children on the ruins. But, Samuel just kept working. He picked up a beam and pushed it out of the way when he heard a faint cry. “Help! Help!” Samuel listened but didn’t hear anything again. Then he heard a muffled voice, “Papa?”

    Samuel began to dig furiously. Finally he could see his son. “Come on out, son!” he said with relief.

    “No,” Armand said. “Let the other kids come out first because I know you’ll get me.” Child after child emerged until, finally, little Armand appeared. Samuel took him in his arms and Armand said, “I told the other kids not to worry because you told me that you’d always be there for me!”

    Fourteen children were saved that day because one father was faithful.

    LUV UR CHILDERN !!

    THEIR FAITH CAN MOVE THE MOUNTAIN !!!!

    What goes around comes around..undoubtly one of the best messages ever read..

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    WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND…

    One day a man saw an old  lady, stranded on the side of the road, but even in the dim light of day, he could see she needed help. So he pulled up in front of her Mercedes and got out. His Pontiac was still sputtering when he approached her.

    Even with the smile on his face, she looked worried. No one had stopped to help for the last hour or so. Was he going to hurt her? He didn’t look safe; he looked poor and hungry.

    He could see that she was frightened, standing out there in the cold. He knew how she felt. It was that chill which only fear can put in you.

    He said, ‘I’m here to help you, ma’am. Why don’t you wait in the car where it’s warm? By the way, my name is Bryan Anderson.’

    Well, all she had was a flat tire, but for an old lady, that was bad enough. Bryan crawled under the car looking for a place to put the jack, skinning his knuckles a time or two.

    Soon he was able to change the tire. But he had to get dirty and his hands hurt.

    As he was tightening up the lug nuts, she rolled down the window and began to talk to him. She told him that she was from St. Louis and was only just passing through. She couldn’t thank him enough for coming to her aid.

    Bryan just smiled as he closed her trunk. The lady asked how much she owed him. Any amount would have been all right with her. She already imagined all the awful things that could have happened had he not stopped. Bryan never thought twice about being paid. This was not a job to him. This was helping someone in need, and God knows there were plenty, who had given him a hand in  the past. He had lived his whole life that way, and it never occurred to him to act any other way.

    He told her that if she really wanted to pay him back, the next time she saw someone who needed help, she could give that person the assistance they needed, and Bryan added, ‘And think of me.’

    He waited until she started her car and drove off. It had been a cold and depressing day, but he felt good as he headed for home, disappearing into the twilight.

    A few miles down the road the lady saw a small café.. She went in to grab a bite to eat, and take the chill off before she made the last leg of her trip home. It was a dingy looking restaurant. Outside were two old gas pumps. The whole scene was unfamiliar to her. The waitress came over and brought a clean towel to wipe her wet hair. She had a sweet smile, one that even being on her feet for the whole day couldn’t erase. The lady noticed the waitress was nearly eight months pregnant, but she never let the strain and aches change her attitude.

    The old lady wondered how someone who had so little could be so giving to a stranger. Then she remembered Bryan .After the lady finished her meal, she paid with a hundred dollar bill. The waitress quickly went to get change for her hundred dollar bill, but the old lady had slipped right out the door. She was gone by the time the waitress came back. The waitress wondered where the lady could be. Then she noticed something written on the napkin.

    There were tears in her eyes when she read what the lady wrote: ‘You don’t owe me anything. I have  been there too. Somebody once helped me out, the way I’m helping you. If you really want to pay me back, here is what you do: Do not let this chain of love end with you.’

    Under the napkin were four  more $100.

    Well, there were tables to clear, sugar bowls to fill, and people to serve, but the waitress made it through another day. That night when she got home from work and climbed into bed, she was thinking about the money and what the lady had written. How could  the lady have known how much she and her husband needed it? With the baby due next month, it was going to be hard… She knew how worried her  husband was, and as he lay sleeping next to her, she gave him a soft kiss and whispered soft and low, ‘Everything’s going to be all right.. I love you, Bryan Anderson.’

    There is an old saying..

    ‘What goes around comes around.’ Let this light shine. God works in mysterious ways and sometimes puts people in our lives for a reason.

    Let her live her life ..let her..

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    Let her take her time…When she takes her time to drink a barely warm cup of tea, let her. She’s given her time to cook your meal and serve it to you before she sat to drink her tea.

    When she takes time to select a dish from the menu, let her. Every day, for every meal she has prepared she has given her time to think about what to make, how much, and for whom.

    When she takes time to dress up to go out with you, let her. She has given her time to make sure that your ironed clothes are in their place and knows better than you,where your socks are. She has dressed up her child thoughtfully, to look like the most smartly dressed up child around.

    When she takes time to watch TV mindlessly, let her. She is only half concentrating and has a clock ticking in her head. As soon as it’s nearing dinner time, you’ll see her disappear to get things ready.

    When she takes time to serve you breakfast, let her. She has kept aside the burnt toast for herself and is taking the time to serve her family the nicest ones she could manage.

    When she takes time after her tea to just sit by the window and stare into nothingness, let her. It’s her life, she’s given you countless hours of her life..Let her take a few minutes for herself.

    She’s rushing through her life, giving chunks of her time whenever needed, wherever needed. Don’t rush her more than she rushes herself.dont push her harder than she pushes herself.

    Just another woman.?

    Very important message for all parents

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    Boy tied up by sister outdoors

    An Article by DrMehta -message for all parents .The doctor says the parents gave the mobile phone to the child at first to “save time”. “Both parents are working, the father a businessman and the mother a lecturer, and had very little time for the child. It was also found that when the child was an infant, he was given the mobile for entertainment. Slowly, it developed into a habit. He would have his meals only when he had a mobile. Either he would see YouTube or play games while having food,” says Dr Mehta.

    When the counselling began, the boy initially sat absolutely silent, refusing to talk. “He opened up when we started talking about his relationships and the mobile phone. He said he preferred the mobile over outdoor games.”

    The parents, who are being counselled separately, admitted that they too never pushed him to go out, telling themselves this would keep him from bad company.

    They started realising something was wrong around a year ago when the boy started showing symptoms of withdrawal, anger and tension when the mobile phone was taken from him. “He had started having constant headaches, which were found to be due to failing eyesight. He was advised spectacles. To control further deterioration of his eyesight, parents were advised not to let the child use mobile phones and other screens like laptop and television. However, by this time, his habit had transformed into mobile dependence. Any effort to remove the mobile invited irritable behaviour and temper tantrums. He would bang his head against the wall if his wishes were not complied with,” Dr Mehta says. “Finally, he tried cutting his forearm with the kitchen knife to have his way.”

    According to the doctor, cases of mobile phone dependence are getting increasing attention, with its effects now seen to be equivalent to substance abuse. “Anything is termed as dependence when it is in excess and when it starts affecting social and occupational life. In case of substance dependence, the person knows that excessive consumption of the substance is affecting his social and occupational life but still he cannot control it. Just like in drug dependence, in this case, the child had signs of craving, social isolation, feelings of anger and tension when the mobile was not with him. While ‘mobile phone dependence’ has still not made its way to the diagnostic manual, psychiatrists are now using this nomenclature,” says the doctor.

    The boy is now being advised about “alternative ways of living”, the doctor says. “While he has been put on anti-depressants, the main treatment is changing his dependence. He is trying to meet new children. We are ensuring he has new hobbies. We are encouraging him to play table-tennis. He has started liking it. He is also going for music classes to relax his mind.”

    Dr Mehta also emphasises the role of “positive parenting”. “The main focus of the treatment is positive parenting. We have told them to spend quality time with the child. We have asked them to have gadget-free time at home. And this should continue till he is 13. We have asked that they must have one meal a day together and go for walks together. That is key to his recovery.”

    Now adays offering mobile to children to keep them silent during feeding and during routine house hold work. and this became a habit for children to carve for it. As a result children are getting addicted to the phone. They are becomming ill tempered restless. Parents should spend time with children, to disassociate them.

     

    Gratitude is magical..

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    There was a bird who lived in the desert; very sick, no feathers, nothing to eat and drink, no shelter to live and kept on cursing his life day and night.
    One day, an Angel was crossing from that desert, bird stopped the Angel and inquired ” where are you going?” Angel replied ” I am going to meet God”.

    So bird asked angel ‘ please ask God when my suffering will come to an end?’ Angel said ” sure, I will” and bid good bye to bird. Angel reached God’s place and shared the message of bird to Him.

    Angel told Him how pathetic the condition of bird is and inquired when the suffering of the bird will end. God replied “For the next seven life times, the bird has to suffer like this, no happiness till then”.

    Angel said when bird hears this, he will get disheartened. Could You suggest any solution for this?

    God replied: Tell him to recite this mantra “Thank you God for everything”. Angel met the bird again and delivered the message of God to the bird.

    After seven days, the Angel passed the same path again and saw that bird was so happy; feathers had grown on his body, a small plant grew up in the desert area, a small pond of water was also there, the bird was singing and dancing cheerfully. Angel was astonished as to how this happened, ‘God said for seven life times, there is no happiness for the bird’… with this question in mind, He went to visit God.

    Angel asked his query then God replied: “Yes, it was written there will be no happiness for the bird for seven life times but because the bird was reciting the mantra “Thank you God for everything” in every situation.

    When bird fell down on the hot sand, it said “thank you God for everything”, when it could not fly it said “thank you God for everything”, so whatever the situation, the bird kept on repeating “Thank you God for everything” and therefore the seven life times’ karma got dissolved in seven days”.

    When I heard this story, it landed me in a different energy zone, i felt a tremendous shift in my way of feeling, thinking, accepting and viewing life.

    I adopted this mantra in my life. Whatever the situation I faced, I started reciting this mantra ‘ THANK YOU GOD FOR EVERYTHING’. It helped me to shift my view from what i did not have to what i have in my life.

    Similarly, i started using this mantra in my relationship, finance, love life, social life, business, with friends, maids, colleagues and everything with which I can relate. I shared this story with my spouse and children too which brought a great shift in their behaviour.

    This simple mantra really had a deep impact in my life, i started feeling how blessed I am, how happy I am, how good life is….

    The purpose of sharing this message is to make all of us aware how powerful is the power of gratitude is. It can reshape our life.

    A simple word, a simple thought, which teaches us to be grateful for everything we have in our life has power to dissolve the karmic baggage which we are carrying from so many life times. Lets recite this mantra continuously to experience the shift in our life.

    I end this article with the beautiful lines:

    Be grateful, and see the change in ,your attitude.

     

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