Dear future king of my castle,
I hope you are doing great there. All though we haven’t met personally yet, but I have already started thinking about you. 😛
Wedding will be just a one day event but our marriage is going to last a little more than forever, so here is a letter for you which will give you an insight into my perspective of understanding life.
I promise to be your better half in every aspect, I promise to share all your grieves, you will always have my shoulder to cry on. Society may give us a tag of spouse, but before that I will always remain your best friend; you can always count on me.
I want you to know that I have no desire to be seen as a trophy — a symbol of your own perceived success. I was not raised to hustle like a man and never depend on one. I want to have intellectual conversations. I want to help you chase your dreams. I want to be your partner, not your prize.
While I try to adjust in your environment, instead of being spectator, help me. Be patient. Trust me with you by my side; it would be way easier for me to understand it. Few times I might need space and would need just ‘Metime”, and I will provide you with it whenever you require, Sometimes I may want to spend time with my parents or might want to go on a solo ride or meet my friends. Please understand me in those times. My choices are very fickle; my only choice that would remain constant will be YOU!
Most importantly, I want you to know that when we do fall in love, I will love you unconditionally. I don’t expect you to be perfect, and I can guarantee you that I won’t be either. I do, however, expect you to accept me fully for who I really am, and I promise to do the same for you. I will never try to change you, I will never let you feel unseen, and I will always be your number one fan.
I believe that love is beyond beauty, for beauty may fade away someday but love is eternal. I might not look flawless all the time but my heart will always reflect its beauty. My goal is not to get married but to stay married.
I hope we meet soon,
Your future wife